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051024 When a Little Baby Dies...

When A Little Baby Dies…

- Edgar Albert Guest

When a little baby dies
And the wee form silent lies,
And the little cheeks seem waxen
And the little hands are still,
Then your soul gives way to treason,
And you cry: "O, God, what reason,
O, what justice and what mercy
Have You shown us by Your will?"
"Oh, there are so many here
Of the yellow leaf and sere,
Who are anxious, aye, and ready
To respond unto Your call;
Yet You pass them by unheeding,
And You set our hearts to bleeding!
Oh how bitterly upon us
Do Your vaunted mercies fall!"
Yet some day, in after years,
When Death's angel once more nears,
And the unknown, silent river
Looms as darkly as a pall,
You will hear your baby saying,
"Mamma, come to me, I'm staying
With my arms outstretched to greet you,"
And you'll understand it all.

 

 

Prayer of Faith…

We trust that beyond absence

There is a presence.

That beyond the pain

There can be healing.

That beyond the brokenness

There can be wholeness.

That beyond the anger

There may be peace.

That beyond the hurting

There may be forgiveness.

That beyond the silence

There may be the Word.

That beyond the Word

There may be understanding.

That through understanding

There is love.

- Anonymous

 

When something bad happens

You have three choices …

You can either let it define you.

You can let it destroy you.

Or you can let it strengthen you.

- Anonymous

 

You never know who

Your real friends are until

Adversity overtakes you

And you need cooperation.

- Napoleon Hill Foundation

 

Friendship improves happiness

And abates misery,

By the doubling of our joy

And the dividing of our grief.

- Marcus Tullius Cicero

 

There is sacredness in tears.

They are not the mark of weakness,

But of power.

They speak more eloquently than

Ten thousand tongues.

They are the messengers of

Overwhelming grief,

Of deep contrition,

And unspeakable love.

- Washington Irving

 

The reality is that you

will grieve forever.

You will not “get over”

the loss of a loved one;

You will learn to live with it.

You will heal and you will

rebuild yourself around

The loss you have suffered.

You will be whole again but

you will never be the same.

Nor should you be the same

nor would you want to.

Copyright:

- Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

Family Limited Partnership

 

We don’t ‘get over’

The deepest pains of life,

Nor should we.

‘Are you over it?’

Is a question that cannot be asked by

Someone who has been through ‘it’

Whatever ‘it’ is.

It’s an anxious question,

An asking for reassurance that

Cannot be given.

During an average lifetime

There are many pains,

Many grieves to be borne.

We don’t ‘get over’ them;

We learn to live with them,

To go on growing and deepening,

And understanding…

- Madeleine L’ Engle

 

A Litany of Remembrance…

In the rising of the sun and

in its going down,
we remember them.
In the blowing of the wind and

in the chill of winter,
we remember them.
In the opening of buds and

in the rebirth of spring,
we remember them.
In the blueness of the sky and

in the warmth of summer,
we remember them.
In the rustling of leaves and

in the beauty of autumn,
we remember them.
In the beginning of the year and

when it ends,
we remember them.
When we are weary and

in need of strength,
we remember them.
When we are lost and

sick at heart,
we remember them.
When we have joys we

yearn to share,
we remember them.
So long as we live,

they too shall live,

For they are now a part of us,
as we remember them.

- Anonymous

 

Most people reserve celebration

For some future "special day."
I choose to celebrate each and

Every day as a special day.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie

 

Choose to celebrate life…
Celebrate family,

celebrate friends,

Celebrate love,

Celebrate adventure and discovery.
Celebrate and give thanks for all of life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie

 

Life is what you celebrate.

All of it. Even its end.
- Joanne Harris

Life isn't a matter

of milestones,

But of moments.
- Rose Kennedy

Love is always open arms.

If you close your arms about

Love you will find that you

Are left holding only yourself.

- Leo Buscaglia

 

What love we've given,

We’ll have forever.

What love we fail to give,

Will be lost for all eternity.

- Leo Buscaglia

 

No one gets out of this world alive,

So the time to live, learn, care, share,

Celebrate, and love is now.

- Leo Buscaglia

 

At the end of the day it’s

NOT about what you have

Or even what you’ve accomplished

It’s about who you’ve lifted up,

Who you’ve made better.  

It’s about what you’ve given back. 

- Denzel Washington

 

The Lord… Our Helper

1 I will lift up my eyes to the mountains.

Where will my help come from?

 

2 My help comes from the Lord,

Who made heaven and earth.

 

3 He will not let your feet go out from under you.

He Who watches over you will not sleep.

 

4 Listen, He Who watches over Israel will not

close his eyes or sleep.

 

5 The Lord watches over you.

The Lord is your safe cover at your right hand.

 

6 The sun will not hurt you during the day and

the moon will not hurt you during the night.

 

7 The Lord will keep you from all that is sinful.

He will watch over your soul.

 

8 The Lord will watch over your coming and going,

now and forever.

 

Psalm 121:1-8

New Life Version (NLV)

 

 

Hayden Childs

(205) 269-1382

shcmail34@yahoo.com

www.haydenchilds.net

 

For additional help and support

I recommend …

 

https://www.griefplan.com/

 


 

 

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