Thursday, June 20, 2024

062024 New Ministry Open in the Shoals...

New Ministry Open in the Shoals…

 

Recently my wife Lisa attended a ladies’

Devotional held in the home of her close

Friend Rhonda Stamps.

 

Carolyn O’ Byrne spoke that evening

About Daisy’s Place.

 

On Tuesday June 18th   2024

Daisy’s Place had their Grand opening.

 

Lisa and I along with friends

Kenny & Rita Franks toured the home.

 

Daisy’s Place is going to be a blessing to

All who stay there in their time of need.

 

Lisa and I both recommend

and support this good work!

 

- Hayden Childs, Minister

 

* Daisy’s Place needs volunteers.

* Daisy’s Place needs donations.

 

Looking for the blessed hope and glorious

Appearing of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ,

Who gave Himself for us,

That He might redeem us from every lawless deed

And purify for Himself His own special people,

Zealous for good works.

Titus 2:13-14

                            

Daisy's Place…

 

"A Place to Stay While Your Loved Ones Need You"

 

https://www.daisys-place.org/home

 

(256) 629-6729

 

A home right across the street from

 

North Alabama Medical Center,

 

Florence Alabama

 

When your loved one is in the hospital,

The last thing you need to worry about is a place to rest.

 

Your help will provide a comfortable place for caretakers

To recharge.

 

A mission to serve…

 

When you need more than a chair

 

When you need a break

 

When you need others

 

When you need prayers

 

At times, many people find themselves miles away from

Their loved ones in the hospital.

 

We want to serve them by providing a comfortable supportive

Place to stay while taking care of their hospitalized loved ones

In the Shoals (North West Alabama). 

 

Whether you are an individual, church, or business,

Your heart to give will provide a place for the loved ones of

Those at NAMC (North Alabama Medical Center)

And surrounding medical facilities in North West Alabama.

 

Because of Daisy’s story, it has been my prayer and dream to

One day be a part of something that would soften the hardship,

Stress, and worry that is magnified when you have no place to rest,

Put your things, wash your clothes, or get a bite to eat while taking

Care of your loved one in the hospital.

 

Daisy's Place in Florence, Alabama is that answered prayer.

 

You will have a safe, comfortable place to rest, put your things,

Wash your clothes, and get a bite to eat.

 

Carolyn O’ Byrne

Executive Director

 

Daisy's Place, a 501c3 Company. 

 

Daisy's Place…  Daisy's Story

 

When Daisy was 4 months old,

We moved from Huntsville to Athens, Alabama.

The pregnancy with her had been difficult.

They told me that she would have big issues

And suggested that I abort.

There was no thinking about that answer of NO!

When she was born, she appeared normal.

As she grew, I knew something was wrong.

I had taken her to the Dr. several times mentioning things

Were wrong but I wasn’t heard.

Finally, when she was 17 months old her condition had worsened

to the point that I was terrified to put her to bed at night.

I had taken her to the Dr. twice that day and was told it was just croup.

That night I took her to the ER. They said she was fine.

I refused to leave until they figured out what was wrong.

By the next morning, she was in a hospital room and the pediatric

Heart specialist told us that if she lived, she would need a new heart.

Her ejection fraction was at 13%. 

We decided to take her to Vanderbilt.

I had no car while there but that was ok.

I wasn’t going to leave her anyway.

They discovered her circulatory system was underdeveloped.

From head to toe, they tried and couldn’t get an IV anywhere.

They tried a pic line in each arm, but that failed.

They finally decided to put a central line in her chest.

This line was to check her blood and give her medicine including

The experimental drug they wanted to try.

Within just a couple of days, this drug started burning her

Little body from the inside out.

She screamed for six hours straight. Her fever was climbing.

The last time they took her temp before rushing to find

Cooling blankets, was 106.8.

She was in so much excruciating pain she put herself into a

Self-induced coma for 3 days.

The only way she wouldn’t scream during those three days

Was if I held her and stayed perfectly still.

They informed me that she needed several blood transfusions.

I didn’t know this was coming.

I wanted her to have my blood if at all possible so I asked

Them to wait on mine. They took it and because of not taking

Care of myself while there, my blood wasn’t good enough.

Nutrition? I didn’t think of that for myself.

So now, not only was she in a very dangerous situation with

Her heart, her skin was completely red from the chemical burn

And I was terrified about what it did to the inside of her body.

I was also so concerned about the new blood causing her yet

Another issue.

As her skin healed, it came off so thick that I had to pull her

Scalp skin to the end of her hair just to get it off.

People thought she was a burn victim.

She was finally starting to recover from that when she got

MRSA.

Back to the ICU again. This time she was there for about a week.

She was lifeless for days.

ICU really didn't want you in there, no bathrooms, no food,

No chair, no rest.

The first couple of times she was in ICU lasted just a day or two

But this time would be longer.

Thankfully I had a friend who worked there and found a cart for

Me to put my things on. She let me keep the cart in her tiny office.

Another God send was friends who brought their old 80s

Conversion van to the parking lot.

This gave me a place to keep my things and take a nap.

This friend also came to get my dirty clothes weekly,

Washed them, and brought them back.

I had never thought about that need before.

I stood by Daisy’s side for about 20 hours a day.

This may have been my last moment with her.

Around 1 am I would cry my way to the van in the parking lot

And try to sleep.

I didn’t feel safe at all but it was all I had.

Day by day she improved.

She got well enough to move to a regular room.

While we were in the hospital, if this wasn’t enough,

My other three kids were back at home.

School had just gotten out for the summer and my husband

Still had to work of course.

I truly believe that God put us there in Athens because,

Without our church family,

(Bethel Church of Christ, Bro. Jimmy Clark, Minister)

I don’t know what we would have done.

They jumped right in and took care of everything that I

Couldn’t and I never worried one second that everything

Was ok at home.

The day came to finally go home to Athens.

We would drive back and forth to Nashville weekly,

Then monthly, then finally yearly.

Because of Daisy’s story, it has been my prayer and dream

To one day be a part of something that would soften the hardship,

Stress, and worry that is magnified when you have no place to rest,

Put your things, wash your clothes,

Or get a bite to eat while taking care of your loved one in the hospital.

Daisy's Place in Florence, Alabama is that answered prayer.

You will have a safe, comfortable place to rest, put your things,

Ash your clothes, and get a bite to eat.

The rest of the story.

Daisy is now a beautiful 21-year-old young lady.

(Of course, I’m not prejudiced at all. LOL)

Her life has been a very difficult journey, to say the least.

As of right now, her heart is doing fine but she has other

Challenges that we face daily. God has a plan for her.

 

- Carolyn O’ Byrne

https://www.daisys-place.org/daisys-story

 



 

 

Monday, June 17, 2024

061724 Boston Celtics post...

This evening the NBA’s Boston Celtics

Goes for banner #18 in Boston.

Go Celtics…

Let’s get it done!

- Hayden Childs

 

Take pride in what you do.

The kind of pride I’m talking about

Is not the arrogant puffed-up kind;

It’s just the whole idea of caring…

Fiercely caring.

- Red Auerbach

 

Success is a result of consistent practice

Of winning skills and actions.

There is nothing miraculous about the

Process.

There is no luck involved.

- Bill Russell

 

Whether I start or come off the bench

Makes no difference to me.

My game has always been go as hard

As I can as long as I can.

- John Havlicek

 

Winning is about having the whole

Team on the same page.

- Bill Walton

 

Don’t let winning make you soft.

Don’t let losing make you quit.

Don't let your teammates down

In any situation.

- Larry Bird

 



 

 

 

Boston Greatest Hits

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ufQUxoidxkM&list=PLjO4QRS_y93NgopKIsv-XRcP88U32pEGv

 

 

Saturday, June 15, 2024

061524 In Loving Memory of Alvin Alston my friend...

This post today is in honor

Of a special person who

Touched many lives for Jesus.

 

Alvin Lorenzo Alston Jr.

 

Passed from this earth life

Aged 66 years

On Sunday June 9th, 2024 in a

Huntsville, AL Hospital.

 

“Because Abel had faith,

He gave a better gift in worship

To God than Cain.

His gift pleased God.

Abel was right with God.

Abel died,

But by faith he is still speaking

To us.” Hebrews 11:4

 

 

He was my friend,

And brother in Christ.

 

I met Alvin in August 1980

On the campus

Of International Bible College,

Florence, AL.

We lived in the same dormitory

At I.B.C.

 

He was in the group of friends

Who went with us to attend my

First ever movie at the theater

In Florence.

 

Alvin was a special person,

He had a true servant’s heart.

He loved God and his fellow man.

 

He will be sorely missed by all

Who knew and loved this humble

Worker for Christ.

 

I am thankful I called him friend.

 

- Hayden Childs

 

 ***

 

The best mirror is a friend’s eye.

- Gaelic proverb

 

A friend is a person before whom

I may think aloud.

- Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

The man or woman who treasurers

His friend is usually solid gold himself.

- Marjorie Holmes

 

I do my best because I’m counting

On you counting on me.

- Maya Angelou

 

Always give without remembering.

Always receive without forgetting.

- Brian Tracy

 

If you can be happy with simple things,

Then it will be simple to be happy.

- Neil Pasricha

 

Don’t close the book when bad things

Happen in your life.

Just turn the page and begin a new

Chapter.

- LaToya Jackson

 

 


 

Elvis… Ultimate Gospel

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aYs5pwiP9fI

 

 

 

 

Friday, June 14, 2024

061424 Happy Father's Day 2024...

Statistics Tell the Story…

Fathers Matter

According to the U.S. Census Bureau,

17.8 million Children, nearly 1 in 4,
live without a biological, step,

Or adoptive father in the home.*

That’s enough children to fill

New York City twice or Los Angeles

Four times over.

 

Research shows that a father's absence

Affects children in numerous unfortunate ways,
while a father's presence makes a positive

Difference in the lives of both children and mothers.

*U.S. Census Bureau. (2023).

Living arrangements of children under 18 years old:

1960 to present. Washington, D.C.: U.S. Census Bureau.

 

https://www.fatherhood.org/father-absence-statistic

 

 

“Sing to God.

Sing praises to His name.

Make a road for Him

Who goes through the deserts.

The Lord is His name.

Be full of joy before Him.

God in His holy house is a father to

Those who have no father.

And He keeps the women safe

Whose husbands have died.

God makes a home for those

Who are alone.

He leads men out of prison into

Happiness and well-being.

But those who fight against Him

Live in an empty desert.

Psalm 68:4-6

 

The best way to be a good father

To your children is to be a

Good husband to their mother.

- Jay Adams

 

The common denominator between successes

And failure seems to be the spiritual depth

And sincerity of the parents, especially the

Spiritual depth and sincerity of the father.

There seems to be a strong correlation

Between the faith, commitment, and sincerity

Of the family’s head and the spiritual vitality

Of His adult children.

- William Farley

 

Some fathers exasperate their children

By being overly strict and controlling.

They need to remember that rearing children

Is like holding a wet bar of soap…

Too firm a grasp and it shoots from your hand,

Too loose a grip and it slides away.

A gentle but firm hold keeps you in control…

We ought to begin our fatherhood by holding

The tiny helpless bar snugly, but as it grows,

Gradually and wisely loosen our grip.

- Kent Hughes

 

If you fail, father, to teach your son to

Fear God,

The devil will teach him to hate God.

If you fail to teach your son to guard

His mind,

The devil will gladly teach him to have an

Open mind.

If you fail to teach your son to obey his parents,

The devil will teach him to rebel and break

His parent’s heart.

If you fail to teach your son to select his

Companions,

The devil will gladly choose them for him.

If you fail to teach your son to control his body,

The devil will teach him to give it over completely

To lust.

If you fail to teach your son to enjoy the

Marriage partner that God has given him,

The devil will teach him to destroy the marriage.

If you fail to teach your son to watch his words,

The devil will fill his mouth with filth.

If you fail to teach your son to pursue his work,

The devil will make his laziness a tool of Hell.

If you fail to teach your son to manage his money,

The devil will teach him to waste it on riotous living.

And if you fail to teach your son to love his neighbor,

The devil will gladly teach him to love only himself.

- John MacArthur

 

A famous cigarette billboard pictures

A curly-headed, bronze-faced,

Muscular macho with a cigarette

Hanging out the side of his mouth.

The sign says,

“Where a man belongs.”

That is a lie.

Where a man belongs is at the bedside

Of his children,

Leading in devotion and prayer.

Where a man belongs is leading his family

To the house of God.

Where a man belongs is up early and alone

With God seeking vision and direction for

The family.

- John Piper