She entered the world 09/19/1988 and she has been a special
blessing to her mother and I. She continues to be a blessing to
all who know her. She and her husband are both living a life
that matters ...
Living a Life That Matters
Ready or not, some day it will all come to an end.
There will be no more sunrises, no minutes, hours,
Or days.
All the things you collected, whether treasured or
forgotten,
Will pass to someone else.
Your wealth, fame and temporal power will shrivel to
irrelevance.
It will not matter what you owned or what you were
owed.
Your grudges, resentments, frustrations and
jealousies will finally disappear.
So too, your hopes, ambitions, plans and to-do lists
will expire.
The wins and losses that once seemed so important
will fade away.
It won't matter where you came from or what side of
the tracks you
Lived on at the end.
It won't matter whether you were beautiful or
brilliant.
Even your gender and skin color will be irrelevant.
So what will matter?
How will the value of your days be measured?
What will matter is not what you bought,
But what you built;
Not what you got, but what you gave.
What will matter is not your success,
But your significance.
What will matter is about what you learned as well as
what you taught.
What will matter is every act of integrity,
compassion, courage or sacrifice
that enriched, empowered or encouraged others
to emulate your example.
What will matter is not your competence,
But your character.
What will matter are not how many people you knew,
But how many felt good when they were around you and
how you served them.
What will matter are not your memories,
But the memories that live in those who loved you.
What will matter is how long you will be remembered,
By whom and for what.
Living a life that matters doesn't happen by
accident.
It's not a matter of circumstance but of choice.
Choose to live a life that matters.
- Michael Josephson
What
Constitutes Success?
He has
achieved success
Who has
lived well,
Laughed
often and loved much;
Who has
gained the respect of
Intelligent
men and the love
Of little
children;
Who has
filled his niche and
Accomplished
his task;
Who has
left the world better
Than he
found it,
Whether by
an improved poppy,
A perfect
poem, or a rescued soul;
Who has
never lacked appreciation
Of earth’s
beauty or failed to express it;
Who has
always looked for the best
In others
and given the best he had;
Whose life
was an inspiration;
Whose
memory a benediction.
- Bessie A.
Stanley