Wednesday, August 09, 2023

080923 How to prepare financially for your death...

How to prepare financially for your death

(No Matter How Young You Are)

 

A year after co-founding Everplans, an online estate and legacy planning

website, in 2012, Abby Schneiderman experienced firsthand why end-of-life

planning is important: Her 51-year-old brother died in a car accident.

 

“It was a disaster compounded by the fact that we had no idea of what he

wanted or what he wanted us to do,” she says.

“It left my family in a nightmare situation of having to track things down in

a short period.”

 

Whether young or old, with a lot or little to leave behind, there are things you

can do now to make it easier on your family in case you die or are too ill or

injured to speak for yourself.

 

Follow these steps to financially prepare.

 

* Name financial and medical powers of attorney

 

Estate attorneys recommend all adults have these in place:

 

An advanced health care directive:

This includes a living will stating your wishes for medical care, and a durable

health care power of attorney, which names someone to make decisions if

you can’t.

 

A financial power of attorney:

This designates someone to handle your financial affairs. The document can

be written to apply broadly or kick in if you’re incapacitated.

 

“Ideally, every adult should have a will,” says Rachel Podnos, a financial planner

with Wealth Care LLC in Washington, D.C.

 

It’s a must for parents of minors. In a will you name a guardian for your children.

Without a will, the state will decide. States have preferences for who should be 

appointed, and those may not match yours, says estate planning attorney

Kathleen Bilderback of Affinity Law Group in St. Louis.

 

Setting up a trust for your kids is also important because children can’t directly

inherit money or property until they’re adults. A trust holds property and money

for them, and the trust document states how the assets should be managed

and used. An adult you appoint as trustee carries out the instructions.

If both parents die and there is no trust, the court appoints someone to manage

the assets.

Hire an estate attorney when you need advice, Bilderback says.

Although you can download legal forms online, she says, “the internet is

not a good lawyer.”

 

You need life insurance if your death would be a financial blow to someone.

Most parents need coverage to replace income or pay for services they provide

for the family. You also need life insurance if you have debts that would fall on

someone else.

 

Term life insurance is sufficient for most people. You buy coverage to last as

long as your loved ones will depend on you financially, such as 10, 20 or

30 years.

 

Ideally by the term’s end you no longer need coverage:

Your children are independent and you have enough savings to support a spouse.

 

Permanent life insurance, such as universal or whole life insurance, is the answer

if you have a lifelong financial dependent, such as a child with special needs,

or if your heirs would owe estate taxes.

 

Put your last wishes in writing and share them with loved ones. Podnos advises

 setting money aside in a savings account and naming a “payable on death”

beneficiary — someone you trust to carry out the funeral arrangements.

 

Another way to make sure a funeral is funded are to buy a small whole life

insurance policy .

 

* Keep organized records and communicate

 

Store important documents in a safe at home or safe deposit box. Make sure

your trusted loved ones know where to find everything and have access.

 

You can also use online services like Everplans to store documents and

information digitally to share securely. The website gives prompts to help you

think of everything your loved ones should know, including information that may

not come to mind immediately, such as the code for the home security system

 or directions for pet care.

 

Rosalyn Jonas of Bethesda, Maryland, says she and her husband had thought

about setting up such an account, but he died unexpectedly two years ago at

age 69, before they had enacted any plans.

 

“Compared to other people, we were pretty well organized,” she says.

“But I was really unprepared for how physically demanding and emotionally

exhausting it was.”

 

There were countless details to straighten out — from how to program the

Wi-Fi-enabled thermostat to locating a full list of bills on autopay on his

credit cards.

 

* Update your estate plan

 

Bilderback advises clients to review their wills, beneficiary designations and

titling of property every five years and after major life changes.

Jonas says she and her husband had planned to reduce bequests in their wills,

but never got around to it.

 

“I had to pay out a quarter of a million dollars in bequests to organizations we

would not necessarily support [at that level] now,” she says.

 

Don’t let the mere topic of death scare you off from getting your affairs in order.

“I don’t look at this planning as morbid,” Schneiderman says.

“I look at it as being responsible.”

 

This article was written by NerdWallet and was originally published by USA Today

 

Barbara Marquand

Jan. 17, 2017

 

https://www.everplans.com

 

 

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Monday, August 07, 2023

080723 quotes plus...

 

All I have seen teaches me

To trust the Creator for

All I have not seen. 

- Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

One of the most difficult things

To give away is kindness…

it is usually returned. 

- Cort R. Flint

 

Never does the human soul

Appear so strong and noble

As when it forgoes revenge

And dares to forgive an injury. 

- Edwin Hubbell Chapin

 

***

 

 

Thinking...

 

If you think you are beaten, you are
If you think you dare not, you don't,
If you like to win, but you think you can't
It is almost certain you won't.

If you think you'll lose, you're lost
For out of the world we find;
Success begins with a fellow's will
It's all in the state of mind.

If you think you are outclassed, you are
You've got to think high to rise,
You've got to be sure of yourself before
You can ever win a prize.

Life's battles don't always go
To the stronger or faster man,
But soon or late the person who wins
Is the person who thinks 'I CAN'.

- Walter D. Wintle

 

 

 

 

***

 

 

Extraordinary people survive

Under the most terrible

Circumstances and they become

More extraordinary because of it.

- Robertson Davies

 

 

To grow, you must be willing

To let your present and future

Be totally unlike your past.

Your history is not your destiny.

- Alan Cohen

 

 

Remember that if the opportunities

For great deeds should never come, 

the opportunities for good deeds are

Renewed day by day.

The thing for us to long for is the

Goodness, not the glory.

- F.W. Faber

 

 

If you looked over your life

At the end of it…

Life wouldn’t be measured

In terms of success based on

What you’ve acquired or achieved

Or what you own.

The only thing that’s really going

To matter is the relationships you had.

It’s gonna come down to this…

What kind of father were you?

What kind of husband were you?

What kind of coach or teammate were you?

What kind of son were you?

What kind of brother were you?

What kind of friend were you?

Success comes in terms of relationships.

- Joe Erhmann

 

 

 

I Believe…

Elvis Presley

With the Royal Philharmonic Orchestra

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTQuzGMzmIo

 


 

 

 

Friday, August 04, 2023

080423 Without Life Insurance...

Without Life Insurance…

1.       You Die. Family Grieves.

2.       Family Must Find $ To Bury You.

3.       Family Must Find $ To Pay Off Your Debt,

Mortgages, Car Note, etc.…

4.       Family Might Have to Take on More Debt

To Bury You and To Pay Off Debt,

(Loans And Credit Cards)

5.       Family Struggles to Make Ends Meet.

6.       Family Is Sad.

 

With Life Insurance…

1.       You Die. Family Grieves.

2.       Family Has $ To Bury You and Pays

Off All Debt.

3.       Family Can Focus on Grieving and Has

Nothing To Worry About Financially.

 

Which Situation Would You Rather

Leave Your Family In?

 

-          David Vogelsang

 

 

“The grief is bad enough

Don’t leave the burden

To your family.”

- Hayden Childs

 


 

080423 quotes

Think, Believe, Dream, Dare.

- Walt Disney



There is no such thing

as a hopeless situation.

Every single circumstance

of your life can change!

- Rhonda Byrne 



Remember,

Success and failure aren't opposites,

They are neighbors separated by a thin line...

By a single decision... the decision not to quit.

- John M. Rowley

 


 

 

 

Thursday, August 03, 2023

080323 Poem... Your ear, a Smile and a Happy Word

Your Ear, a Smile, and a Happy Word...

If you see somebody having a rough day,

If you see somebody struggling on the way,
If you see somebody with a broken heart,
If you see somebody whose world's come apart,

If you see somebody who's tossed to and fro,
If you see somebody whose back is bent low,
Give him your ear, a smile, and a happy word,

And bid him put his trust in the Blessed Lord.

 

If you see somebody who's fighting with sin,
If you see somebody despised by all men,

If you see somebody who has lost his way,

If you see somebody with too much to pay,
If you see somebody who's wandering about,
If you see somebody who's struggling with doubt,

Give him your ear, a smile, and a happy word,

And bid him put his trust in the Blessed Lord.

 

If you see somebody downtrodden and sad,

If you see somebody that the world counts mad,

If you see somebody confused and distraught,

If you see somebody who's suffering for naught,

If you see somebody whom life's left behind,
If you see somebody with a troubled mind,
Give him your ear, a smile, and a happy word,

And bid him put his trust in the Blessed Lord.

 

If you see somebody who's doing all right,
If you see somebody whose burden is light,
If you see somebody with no pain or care,
If you see somebody who's loved everywhere,

If you see somebody not troubled with sin,
Give him your ear, a smile, and a happy word,

And bid him put his trust in the Blessed Lord.

 

- H.L. Gradowith

 

Via Beacon 02/23/2015

 

***

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart,

And do not trust in your own understanding.

Agree with Him in all your ways,

And He will make your paths straight.”

Proverbs 3:5-6

 

 


 

080323 quotes

“For a man who is right with God

Falls seven times, and rises again,

But the sinful fall in time of trouble.”

Proverbs 24:16

 

Do not look where you fell,

But where you slipped.

- African proverb



A failure is a man

Who has blundered

But is not capable of

Cashing in on the

Experience.

- Elbert Hubbard

 


Many of life's failures

Are people who did not

Realize how close they

Were to success when

They gave up.

- Thomas Alva Edison

 

 


 

 

Tuesday, August 01, 2023

080123 quotes plus

I don’t always buy golf tees and

Titleist Pro V1 Golf balls but

When I do I buy them at…

 

www.lostgolfballs.com

 

 

For golf gloves and a great

Ball for senior players…

 

www.MGGolf.com

 

I had a great friend from

Dixon, KY who recently

Got his first hole in one

On a par 3 125 yds at his

Home golf course at

Providence, KY.

On the senior ball I sent him.

 

- Hayden Childs

 

OLD GOLFERS never die,

They just putter away.

- Anonymous

 

Golf... is the infallible test.

The man who can go into a patch of rough alone,

With the knowledge that only God is watching him,

And play his ball where it lies,

Is the man who will serve you faithfully and well.

- P.G. Wodehouse

 

 

Approach the

Golf course as

A friend,

Not an enemy.

- Arnold Palmer