THE 11 MAIN REASONS FOR ALL FAILURE...
1) Failures, mistakes, setbacks, delays, criticism negatively affect self-image … creates image of failure in specific life areas.
2) Failures, mistakes, setbacks, delays, criticisms have only or
mostly negative meanings.
3) Feeling no responsibility for negative outcomes/setbacks.
4) Self-doubt – Feeling/believing “I can’t” – lack of faith.
5) Love for/Attraction to people, places, things, actions that
get in the way of positive goals/outcomes.
6) Dislike/repulsion to tasks, people & places that support
help you achieve positive goals/outcomes.
7) Worry: Focusing on what’s not perfect/What “could” go wrong.
8) Blowing up the size/difficulty of goal oriented tasks/decisions.
9) Blowing up mistakes, setbacks & delays, criticisms
(real or imagined).
10) Disaster thinking – Imagining the worst outcomes/effects.
11) Stress reactions in the body – destroys the ability of your
“vessel” to accomplish your desired outcomes.
These patterns are common to us all in areas where we are
not good at something and not great at something.
If you have not mastered a set of actions, look to these 11
and you will see why.
Study this list …
As you ponder each one, you will grow to understand the
limitations of many kinds of self-help in its ability to shrink
the influence of these automatic, conditioned ways of
thinking and acting.
You will see that these patterns are automatic.
They are ways of “being” that we learn throughout our lives.
Most of these patterns are NOT built into us from birth, at
least not in every area of life.
They are learned.
- Mike Brescia
www.haydenchilds.net
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