A Note from Hayden…
Today’s post is for a friend and
brother
In Christ who is grieving today
over the
Passing of his son.
Pray for all those grieving today.
May this post be a source of help
And comfort.
- Hayden Childs
***
Memory is the
Only friend of grief.
- Rumer Godden
Friendship improves happiness
and abates misery,
By the doubling of our joy and
the dividing of our grief.
- Marcus Tullius Cicero
Grief knits two hearts in closer
Bonds than happiness ever can;
And common sufferings are far
Stronger links than common joys.
- Alphonse de Lamartine
We don’t
‘get over’
The
deepest pains of life,
Nor
should we.
‘Are you
over it?’
Is a
question that cannot be asked by
Someone
who has been through ‘it’
Whatever
‘it’ is.
It’s an
anxious question,
An asking
for reassurance that
Cannot be
given.
During an
average lifetime
There are
many pains,
Many
grieves to be borne.
We don’t
‘get over’ them;
We learn
to live with them,
To go on
growing and deepening,
And
understanding…
- Madeleine
L’ Engle
When
something bad happens
You have
three choices …
You can
either let it define you.
You can
let it destroy you.
Or you
can let it strengthen you.
- Anonymous
Time is…
Too Slow for those who Wait,
Too Swift for those who Fear,
Too Long for those who Grieve,
Too Short for those who Rejoice;
But for those who Love,
Time is not.
- Henry
Van Dyke
Prayer of
Faith…
We trust
that beyond absence
There is
a presence.
That
beyond the pain
There can
be healing.
That
beyond the brokenness
There can
be wholeness.
That
beyond the anger
There may
be peace.
That
beyond the hurting
There may
be forgiveness.
That
beyond the silence
There may
be the Word.
That
beyond the Word
There may
be understanding.
That
through understanding
There is
love.
-
Anonymous
***
Overcoming Grief and Depression…
All of
us are acquainted with grief and depression. It is estimated
That
about 35 million people in this country suffer with these emotions.
It is
one of the worst feelings one can experience. Many commit
Suicide
rather than cope with it.
1. The first step is to determine
the cause of your grief or depression.
The
causes are many and complex. It may be disappointment, the
Loss of
a job, business failure, serious illness, break-up of a marriage
Or death
of a loved one. Job said, “Man that is born
of a woman is of
Few days and full of trouble” (Job 14:1). We need a source of
comfort
And
strength for such times.
2. Faith in God as a Refuge and a
help is necessary.
Paul
said, “But My God shall supply all your
need according to His riches
in glory by Christ Jesus” (Phil.4:19). David had to deal
with this problem in
his
life. He said, “I had fainted, unless I
had believed to see the goodness
of The Lord in the land of the
living”
(Psa.27:13). The godly men recognized
The need
for God and turned to him for help.
3. The hope of Heaven is an
anchor of the soul.
Jesus
went back to Heaven to prepare a place for us. He promised to
return
for us that we May be with Him (John 14:1-3). Hope is a strong
medicine
for despair. The Hebrew Christians were struggling to hold on
to their
hope. They were told that hope is an anchor of the soul, both sure
and
steadfast, and which entereth into that within the veil (Heb.6:19).
4. Friends and loved ones can
help.
Our
friends hurt when we hurt. They usually want to help but feel helpless
to do
so. Their letters, visits, cards, phone calls, and prayers can be so
comforting
in times of distress and grief. Think of the strength and comfort
Mary and
Martha must have felt when they saw Jesus weep at the tomb
of their
brother Lazarus. Sometimes we just need a sympathetic friend to
listen
while we talk. It is a well known fact that to “talk out” a problem is
good
therapy. It can be helpful for the whole person; body, mind and spirit.
5. Prayer helps to overcome
sorrow and depression.
God
allowed His Own son to suffer pain and agony on the cross in dealing
with our
problem of sin. He, therefore, understands fully the pain and agony
we
sometimes suffer. He loved us so much that He gave Christ to die for us.
God has No
pleasure in our grief. “Let us therefore
come boldly unto the
throne of Grace, that we may
obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time
of need” (Heb.4:16). David said, “In my distress I cried unto the Lord and
He heard Me” (Psa.120:1).
6. God is the God of all comfort.
“Blessed be God even the Father
of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of
mercies, and the God of all
comfort” (2
Cor.1:3). “Casting all your care
upon him: for he careth for you” (1 Pet.5:7). “Cast they burden upon the
Lord, and he shall sustain thee: He
shall never suffer the righteous to be
moved” (Psa.55:22). “Fear thou Not; for I am with thee: be not
dismayed;
for I am thy God: I will
strengthen Thee; yea, I will help thee: yea, I will
uphold thee with the right hand
of My righteousness”
(Isa.41:10).
May you
let God help you.
-
G.L. Mann
Via
Beacon
Edited
by Hayden Childs
Like
Abel of old our esteemed brother in Christ still “speaks being dead”
(Heb.11:4).
***
“ Do not fear, for
I am with you.
Do not be afraid, for I
am your God.
I will give you
strength,
and for sure I will
help you.
Yes, I will hold you up
with
My right hand that is
right and good.
Isaiah 41:10
***
Sunshine on my Shoulders – John Denver
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=diwuu_r6GJE